How to Channel Your Inner It Girl at Any Age
Let’s be real. The It Girl era isn’t just reserved for twenty-somethings on TikTok. It’s a mindset, an energy, and a way of showing up that you can tap into, whether you’re 25, 35, 45, or beyond. The truth? It Girl status has less to do with what’s trending and more to do with how confidently you own your story. And you can start by telling your story through something you have to do every day - getting dressed.
At BLANKWardrobe, we’ve always believed that getting dressed is self-care. It’s not just about putting clothes on your body; it’s about how you want to feel and show up as you step into your day. So let’s break down how you can channel your inner It Girl, at any age.
1. Make Confidence Your Best Accessory
The real It Girl glow doesn’t come from a label or the clothes that you put on your body alone; it comes from how you carry yourself. Showing up as the woman you are or aspire to be is more than half the battle. At 30, that might mean walking into a strategy meeting in a blazer and making sure that you take up space with your personality. At 45, it might mean saying no to fast fashion trends and yes to pieces that truly feel like you. At 55, it’s embracing everything you’ve grown into with zero apologies. Confidence never goes out of style.
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2. Curate a Wardrobe That Works With You
Decision fatigue is a thief. The more you can simplify your closet, the easier it becomes to channel main-character energy daily. Invest in elevated basics that do the heavy lifting:
- A core bodysuit that can live at the office and on date night.
- A two-piece set that mixes and matches like magic.
- A denim jacket with edge that instantly upgrades your look.
Think less clutter, more clarity. When your closet is curated, your mornings feel lighter and your style feels effortless.
3. Treat Getting Dressed Like a Ritual
Here’s the thing: you have to get dressed every day anyway. Why not make it a moment for you? Light a candle, put on your playlist, and actually enjoy pulling looks together. That tiny shift—turning getting dressed from a chore into a ritual—can set the tone for your entire day.
4. Age Is Just a Chapter, Not a Limit
The It Girl evolves with you. She’s the same woman at 25 chasing her goals, at 40 balancing career and family, and at 55 stepping fully into her power. The clothes change, the lifestyle shifts, but the essence stays the same: she’s bold, authentic, and unapologetically herself.
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5. Accessorize With Intention
Your fragrance, your jewelry, your signature lip color—they all tell the world a story before you even speak. Whether you’re a minimalist who swears by gold hoops or someone who loves a bold statement bag, the key is choosing pieces that feel like you.
6. Surround Yourself With Style and Energy That Inspires
No It Girl moves solo. Community matters. Curate your circle the way you curate your closet—keep what fits, release what doesn’t. Confidence grows faster when you’re around women who remind you of your power and style that makes you feel unstoppable. Stay tuned to learn more about the work we've been doing to create a community for women just like you.
The Bottom Line
The It Girl is not a trend. She’s a timeless energy. She’s you—when you decide to show up fully as yourself, no matter what number is on your birthday cake.
And if you’re ready to lean in? Start with your wardrobe. Because when your closet works, your confidence works overtime.